For years, Intimate Alchemy has stood out for our unique fragrance blends that you can't find anywhere else. Customers for years have been asking for candles, hand soaps and diffuser oils because they wanted their homes to smell like their favorite IA scents. Due to popular demand, as of March 1, 2024, we are pre-launching the Peace, Passion & Pleasure Diffuser Oil Collections. Each diffuser oil set comes with 4 10ML diffuser oils. They will be available for purchase individually or you can buy the entire collection.
Here's a breakdown of each collection!
PEACE- FRESH & RELAXING
RENEW: GREEN FLORALS, LINEN, COTTON, LEMON
THRIVE(AKA SOLITUDE): CYPRESS, WHITE CURRANT, GERANIUM
VIBES: SANDALWOOD, LEMON, PATCHOULI
ZEN: COCONUT, BERGAMOT, BAMBOO
PASSION- WARM & FLORAL
GLOW UP: JASMINE, ROSE, OUD, NEROLI
GLOW UP II: ROSE, PEONY, TONKA BEAN
NEW ERA: CHERRY BLOSSOM,AMBER, MAGNOLIA
REBEL: BLACK ROSE, CINNAMON, VANILLA ORCHID
PLEASURE- FRUITY & SULTRY
KISS THE SKY: BLACKBERRY, APRICOTS, CASHMERE
SELF-LOVE (ON THE BEACH): MANGO, PINEAPPLE, COCONUT
ICON: POMEGRANATE, CLOVE, VALENCIA ORANGE
WORSHIP ME: GRAPEFRUIT,AMBER, BERGAMOT
Which collection are you most excited to try?
]]>An elixir is defined as a magical or medicinal (healing) potion. As a Usui Reiki Master, healing is my life purpose and I found it necessary to incorporate my love of energy work within my bodycare products.
While our Body Elixirs are composed of blends of plant, botanical, essential oils, its not just a body oil.
HOW IA BODY ELIXIRS NOURISH YOUR SKIN
Oils are a wonderful addition to yourself-care ritual.
They reintroduce moisture to your skin, improves skin barrier function allowing protection from free radicals like pollution. Oils also deliver nutrients, vitamins & antioxidants to your skin.
HOW IA BODY ELIXIRS CLEANSE & PROTECT YOUR ENERGY FIELD
Our Body Elixirs provide a protective barrier for your aura field, keeping you balanced and energetically light. This is done by the use of essential oils. Aura protection is especially necessary for empaths and those who are very sensitive to energy. Oils allow you to create boundaries and raise your frequency when lower frequencies are present. Each product has specific essential oils with spiritual intentions to aid you in protecting your energy field and your peace.
HOW TO CLEANSE & PROTECT YOUR ENERGY FIELD
Beyond just using our Body Elixirs on your skin, pour a little on your hands, rub them together and motion as if you are cleansing your body but do so without touching your body. This is how you cleanse your aura which is outsife of your physical body. Continue to "wipe" the negativity off of your aura until your intuition advises you that you are done.
Now you know the secret to why people absolutely love our Body Elixirs. They make your skin feel soft & supple, clears energetic debris you may be carrying with you while you smell amazing.
Now you know why we don't sell body oils, we create BODY ELIXIRS!
]]>"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.” – Lao Tzu
When I first thought about writing this post, I knew it may be a bit of a touchy subject, but it needed to be written. I’ve had so many discussions about relationships, my own and those of others. It just never ceases to amaze me how backwards a lot of us think. I say us because once upon a time, I thought the same bullsh*t.
You know how it goes. The “If someone wants to be with me, they gotta show me. I’m not going to do anything until they prove it to me, they are worth it” talk. The song of the brokenhearted. All wanting to be loved but not being in the frequency of love at all. I’m guilty of it as well. I used to date “down”. I’d date guys that I knew didn’t possess the qualities that I needed them to have in order to build a strong, healthy relationship. I used to tell myself that I wanted that kind of relationship but deep down inside I knew the truth. I wasn’t lovable.
I was busy being all these things because I was afraid of being hurt. A lot of male friends that I had, I’ve seen them do some pretty dirty sh*t to women. The males in my family weren’t the best example of how to treat women. Not really having a great example of what a loving male and female relationship looks like on the subconscious level really made me avoid love or shall I say REAL LOVE.
I’ve had relationships where I thought it was LOVE. When I think about it, it was the only amount of “love” that was tolerable for me at that time. Plus being honest, if I wasn’t willing to give 100%, how the hell was I going to expect it from them? I can’t expect what I’m unwilling to give, and I didn’t. I enjoyed those relationships for what it was and moved on.
How can I say negative things about the opposite sex yet want a relationship with the opposite sex? How am I able to say with a straight face that I want to be loved for who I am when I really didn’t know who I was? How the hell was he supposed to know? So, I put in work. I spent 3 years solo. Now I wasn’t a nun. I still got my rocks off lol. What I didn’t do was get into another relationship that couldn’t handle all this love I had built up inside of me.
That was hard. Like have you ever been just full of love but had absolutely no where to put it? No one worthy of receiving it with good intentions and not take it for weakness. There’s a quote that says, “Vulnerability is a gift to someone you trust.” I’m paraphrasing of course but I believe that. You may be asking yourself how did I get there, how did I get to the point where I let my guards down and allowed love in?
I couldn’t bring the old me into the present. She served her purpose for who I dated back then. One thing I wasn’t going to do was enter into a new situation playing games. I’m going to be transparent. I’m going to say what I mean and mean what I say. I’m going to be authentic and if whoever is up next can’t deal with it… it’s okay. They just aren’t the one.
I was told constantly I’m too picky. My standards were too high. The funny part was, it usually came from people who settled all of their lives in relationships and in general. I didn’t care. I didn’t let up. I wasn’t obsessed with finding a mate, but I knew if I’m here on this planet, in this space and time, my other half has to be here too! See I didn’t care about eliminating people because out of the billions that inhabit the Earth, I only required one partner.
I worked on balancing my chakras. I became diligent with my meditation. I ate better. I lived greater. I began to create what I wanted in my life and focused solely on that. I put myself in alignment rather than in opposition to spiritual laws and hermetic principles. I loved on myself shamelessly… running candle lit bubble baths, buying myself roses and enjoying time alone with just me. It got to the point where a relationship wasn’t something I was focused on. I was too busy enjoying me and my space. I got so much value in this time and I’m grateful for it.
So when I hear people talk sh*t about love, all it conveys to me is that they never took the time to love themselves. They probably use relationships as a distraction. A mere band-aide to escape dealing with the trauma, loss, pain and emptiness they feel. They think the love they need is going to come from someone else. When I had the honor of meeting my twin flame in this life, I was already whole. My light was shinning brighter than the sun and moon combined. It drew him to me as we reflected each other’s light.
Don’t give up on love when you have yet to begin to love yourself and put yourself in alignment with the frequency of love. You gotta do this for you. Not anyone else. That is if you really want to be loved.
Okay I’m done ranting! Drop me a line below and let me know your takeaways, observations and opinions. I promise I’ll respond back personally!
~Peace, Passion & Positive Vibes~
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]]>Being a person that understands Universal Law and Hermetic Principles, I can definitely understand that train of thought to an extent. I too believed that once upon a time. Then I developed this thing called discernment and it helped me to process the information but also use common sense. The truth is, no matter how good you treat others, think and speak positively, sh*t is bound to go in a way you don't dig.
Perfection is a joke, yet we chase it constantly. We torment ourselves with the expectation of what should and should not be. The bottom line is that some stuff just IS.
We've all been though challenges and tragedies where we try to make sense of things. We may ask why me? I've done everything right. How could this happen? Those are not the right questions to ask.
The only thing you can control in this life is YOU. What I mean by that is, you can will things to be, to set things in motion. How the Universe interprets what has been received is a totally different ball game.
While you can have all of the understanding of Spiritual/Universal Laws & principles, you still are a human in the physical realm. This realm isn't perfect. It's forever changing, and nothing is permanent. As the saying goes:
So, when f*cked up sh*t happens, it's not because you're wrong, you've not done enough or you're not worthy of good things. F*cked up sh*t happens to push you to grow in ways beyond your comprehension. You will be challenged in ways you never thought possible and will be forced to decide- push through or fall through. Which one will you choose?
Despite this BE YOU! Whatever your version of being a good person is, as being a good person is subjective. We've all been the bad guy in situations but we tend to skim over that. In our Me Mythology, we've only been the greatest, done the best by others and though the highest thoughts. That isn't reality!
Life will throw all kinds of sh*t at you but it's up to you how you deal with it. Everyone has their own struggles, no matter how pretty they make it look on the outside. AS an Intimate Alchemist, you do yourself a disservice by expecting perfection in a realm that is incapable of meeting that expectation.
Has there been a time in your life you experienced trauma, loss, heartbreak, failure etc., and at the time you didn't feel powerful? How did you deal with it? What was the lesson?
Peace, Passion & Positive Vibes!
]]>Now I'mnot saying that self-care isn't any of those things because at the end of the day, we take care of ourselves in the ways we best know how. Did you ever stop to consider that self-care includes how you maintain your energy source? Your personal power?
So think about this. Each and every single day, we are bombarded with requests hell even demands of our attention, our energy, our power. The constant draining of your power leaves you feeling depleted and pretty scattered. You just want to get the hell away from everyone and hide. Do you know why this is? It's because you simply have not made a vital part of your wellness central to your self-care ritual- Energy Maintenance.
Energy Maintenance is about calling back all of the energy you have given out to the world back to yourself. Its about putting yourself first and being kind to yourself, if only for 5 minutes a day. Its about aligning your energy field so you can be the best version of you for you and for those around you.
Imagine the mental state the world would be in, if only they nurtured, supported, protected and understood the importance of their energy. We would be more mindful in our thoughts, words and actions as a whole. We would be delibrate in our daily routines. We would be present and more mindful.
It's high time to normalize Energy Maintenance, don't you think?
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Each person is under the law of his or her own consciousness. Just take care of your own thoughts." - Louise Hay
It's like no matter what, things just won't go right. Couple this with constant experiences back to back of all that is going wrong, you will undoubtedly get to a point where you come to expect the worse.
When you feel like something is holding you back from living the way you want to live it's crushing- it handicaps you. Negativity has it's way of zapping you of positive energy but you don't have to allow that negativity to continue to have power over you.
There are so many techniques to remove negative energy but what about negative thoughts?
Everything starts with your thoughts. It's from your thoughts that we create our world because you're powerful. Sadly we live in a world that makes us question and doubt our power. We feel like we are just a victim of circumstances.
The truth is you're a victim of your social programming which shows itself as your thoughts.
You hear negative thoughts create negative situations all the time right but it doesn't mean shit without having a way to do something about it.
Here's a simple ritual that I've used many times in my life that allows for the release of negativity from your life. This of course is how I do it. Remember, as an intimate alchemist you should feel free to alter this ritual to your liking. This serves only as a foundation.
Be honest with yourself, (which can be difficult) about what you feel negative about and what doesn't serve you in your life. If you're not clear, you will not be able to release negativity.
Have you tried this easy ritual to remove negativity from your life. How did you feel afterwards? How has your life changed since you've done this ritual?
I'd love to hear from you!
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~Peace, Passion & Positive Vibes~
This is the element of breath and life itself. Constantly moving and watching, forcing us to be present in the moment.
It’s characteristics are open mindedness, imaginative, expressive, inventive, intellectual & eloquent.
"That’s life: starting over, one breath at a time."- Sharon Salzberg
Air symbolizes life, regeneration and beginnings. The energy of air flows outward making air as gentle as a spring breeze or as lethal as hurricane winds. Air also rules teaching and overcoming addictions.
Peppermint and Eucalyptus are sharp and crisp, lending itself to it’s characteristics to aid in providing mental clarity. This is why these two oils were chosen for our AIR bath salts.
Peppermint with it’s minty fresh scent is wonderful for getting rid of negative thought forms/patterns.
Eucalyptus has a crisp aroma purifies the mind of negative psychic energies, aids in clear, constructive communication and aids in speaking your truth.
Air welcomes you to challenge your ideas of freedom, travel, & get out of your comfort zone.
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Water is powerful yet gentle, calm yet forceful all centered around purification & healing.
With ruling friendships, marriage as well as the subconscious mind, water impacts our moods.
Ylang Ylang has a soothing aroma. It is stimulates peacefulness and confidence in one’s self.
The lesson Water teaches is to be in the flow of our natural state of being. Be authentic in who we are. Water shows us how to love ourselves, face & let go of negative feelings . Be in the flow. Learn how to adapt but make waves when necessary.
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Fire is passion and intensity, both creative and destructive.
What is important to understand is that although it is a destroyer, it also rebirths. Think of the pheonix that rose from the ashes.
Akin to the root chakra, it’s is all about your survival instincts.
Intimate Alchemy’s FIRE bath salts, infused with black pepper, neroli and lemon speaks to the energy of this bath salt blend.
Take Black pepper, for instance. It is a protector, which works to actively dissolve negative energy. Neroli works to restore balance to your energy field. Lastly, Lemon provides the needed energy to push forward.
The aroma is spicy, warm and sharp. Truly an unexpected surprise you’ll love.
This element asks the question: What is in your life that is blocking you from being amazing? What needs to be destroyed to bring forth the true you?
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